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Getting Settled Back in Ann Arbor

August 14, 2018 Adrienne Bitter
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Ann Arbor is one of my favorite places. It definitely holds a special place in my heart having graduated high school and college here, plus my mother still lives in town, but it really is one of the BEST "small' towns in the country. I think after my medevac I'll have to write post of all there is to do and my favorite spots. I've discovered some new ones since our arrival so I need more time to thoroughly research. So far I'm really fortunate that friends from Chicago came to visit/help our first weekend, that our nanny arrived from Riyadh, and that my mother is here to loan me her car as well as spend time with The Gents when she's not working...and J arrives this weekend!

Surprising to me, our time here has been busier than imagined. We moved into our apartment almost two weeks ago and I feel like I've been going non-stop since our arrival - doctor appointments, grocery runs, getting some items to make this new place a little more comfortable and nesting for baby girl. Being productive is a wonderful feeling, but now being almost 38 weeks along, my bed with new linens is like a siren beckoning me...as is the TV with all of the on-demand content I've missed this last year! I kind of just want to lay in bed (so much respect to women who work up until giving birth AND chase kids around), but these boys need activity and stimulation. Most importantly, I want them to feel more settled and secure before baby girl arrives and their world turns upside down. 

I'm getting C&R into a new routine, that seems to be working well. There is a park a block away that they spend a lot of time at and a pool steps away so they're staying on top of their swim skills. This morning we got to the downtown branch of the library for a very entertaining morning story time and followed by lunch on Main St. I discovered some restaurants where kids eat free! Now to add in a day to go to the Hands On Museum and we'll have a nice weekly schedule. 

What's been a particularly special treat is going to the farmers' market. There are actually a number of them around town throughout the week so it's always possible to get really fresh, in-season fruit and veg. We just finished strawberry season so I think I got the last in-season strawberry rhubarb pie. YUM. And having an abundance of gorgeous peaches, super sweet blueberries, and so many beautiful varieties of tomatoes is wonderful! It's simple things like this that make me appreciate the US, and Michigan so much more. Definitely something I want to make sure our children are exposed to, learn, and appreciate about their food. 

It's not even September/fall yet, which means football season, fresh donut eating and apple picking are still to come! Can't wait to share more with you all soon. xo

 

Tags Ann Arbor, Medevac, Toddlers, Twin Toddlers, Twin Travel, Traveling with kids, Travel Eats, Travel With Kids, Traveling with twins, Farmers Market, Michigan, Summer In Ann Arbor, Summer In Michigan
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Mentally Preparing For My Medevac

June 20, 2018 Adrienne Bitter
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It’s pretty quiet here in Riyadh. The wind down of the school year, Ramadan, Eid, and the heat has sent a lot of the mothers and children packing. Most take the summer to go visit their families back home or travel. It’s also a transition time of year when people leave for other posts.

In just over a week we’ll be leaving for our first R&R back to The States (finally!). I will be staying on for my medevac to deliver the baby, The Gents in tow. This is the longest stretch of time I’ve ever been away from family so I’m more than ready to get back for an extended period. Not going to lie, I’ve been a little jealous as friends here have been leaving and posting pics of freedom on Instagram.

Before I got pregnant I really didn’t think we’d spend more than an R&R (3 weeks) back home. If a mother isn’t working, I can see why she would take the entire summer break. The challenges of Riyadh are especially hard for children. Kids need to be outside, burning off energy. Once the temperature crept past 100 degrees our playgroup disbanded. It’s hard to get The Gents to play outside, first thing in the morning and in the shade, longer than 15 minutes. This summer they’ll be able to run outside on green grass any time of day they want, won’t be exposed to 110+ degree heat and residual dust from sandstorms.

The positives come without a little stress though. First, packing for me and the boys for 3+ months, spanning two Midwest seasons, is a bit overwhelming. Then there is all the gear – car seats, stroller, and cribs; and the long haul flight. Oh and don’t forget about baby girl! I’ll be shipping some items we used early on with C&R to make the first month+ a little easier on me.

J will be there for R&R, but he has to come back to Riyadh for work. Hopefully he’ll make it back in time for the delivery (fingers crossed because I’m getting nervous about this!), but at the very least he’ll be able to take a couple weeks of paternity leave to be with us. The baby and I won’t get medically cleared to fly back to Riyadh until 6 weeks post delivery.

This impending time apart is what I’m dreading the most. Sure we dealt with a long distance relationship while he was in Virginia and I was still in Chicago, but I’m already getting sad about it. Not only do I miss him terribly when we’re apart, but The Gents do, too. 

J had to travel last week and was gone for five days. On the fourth day I was playing with the boys in their play area. C heard the front door open and said, “Dad?” as he started to run to the door. It was our nanny. He handled the disappointment well, but my heart sank for him.

On the plus side, it’s hard to imagine a better place to spend the summer – between Chicago and Michigan – surrounded by family and friends. I’m thrilled our family will have so much time with the boys. I know they miss us all so much. It’s going to be a really special time, finishing up this pregnancy back home. I’m grateful I’m able to deliver this baby in The States and have The Gents with me for it all. So yeah it’s a little bittersweet to be separated form J, but there is a huge upside. I’m thrilled to be coming HOME, again.

Tags R&R, Medevac, International Travel, Travel With Kids, Traveling with twins, Pregnant Abroad, Diplomat Wife, Diplomatic Life
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Onward!

May 15, 2018 Adrienne Bitter
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As most of you know we’re only going to be in KSA for two years, leaving June 2019. Where we’re moving next remained to be seen though. There is a process every year, where people learn about open positions, apply for those of interest and then get matched. I touched on this a few posts back when I referenced J’s Riyadh placement. It’s liberating for me to let go of control…to an extent. J and I discussed extensively where he’d apply for 2019. To be honest, there were only two positions that made sense for him – Cairo and Amman.

I'm fine with either. First, they’re relatively safe (it wouldn’t be accompanied if it wasn’t). Second, Starcom (Publicis) has offices in both. And third, we know people who have lived in either location that have spoken well of these cities. Plus, when you’re coming from Riyadh any other accompanied post in the Middle East is going to seem like a breeze. I jokingly refer to both cities as Muslim-lite.

It's not a given we’d be staying overseas though. Someone at J’s level doesn’t always get back-to-back overseas posts. With only two positions and the pool being highly competitive, we had to be realistic and open to the possibility of J getting placed back in D.C. Neither of us are eager to go back to Virginia though. We’ve really enjoyed our time and look forward to more adventures and experiences that we’d never get otherwise. Like all things, I knew it would work out for the best for us. I also had a strong feeling we’d be staying in the region.

Last week the matches were announced and we’re going to Cairo in October 2019! We’re really excited. It says tremendous things for J and all of the work he’s done here so far. This is definitely a reward for his hard work and he’s going to get to do more of that in Cairo. I’m so proud of him (in case you couldn’t tell)!

I know this in tough on our family and friends back home, especially our parents who want to spend time with their grandchildren. I definitely felt a tinge of surprise and disappointment that we’re continuing overseas AND staying in the region. The upside is that we’ll be back in the States for summer 2019 and get lots of time with everyone then. In Cairo, I’m hopeful that I’ll be able to work and continue Arabic (as well as this blog!). The Gents will start nursery school with an international group of children and be exposed to more than I could have ever imagined myself at that age. Baby girl will also get to experience life in the region and hopefully have some memories there. It’s awing to think of all the historical and religious significance Cairo holds!

Yes, there are a lot of sacrifices that we make, but the positive outweighs the negative. Not many adults, let alone children, can say they’ve lived in these places. We get to do this as a family. It’s so much more sweet than bitter.

So when you’re thinking of exotic places to visit, keep Cairo in mind. Or if you’re want to meet up in Europe, let us know where you’re traveling and maybe we can link up. Looking forward to sharing more adventure with you all over the next few years. xo

Tags Egypt, Cairo, Diplomatic Life, Diplomat Wife, International Move, Traveling with kids, Traveling with twins, Family Travel, Expats
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Abu Dhabi

February 18, 2018 Adrienne Bitter
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I’m pretty sure I’ve mentioned this before that you can get antsy being in Riyadh too long. I often feel limited in our movement (have to be driven, must wear an abaya, trips are planned around prayer times, etc.) and in the variety of what’s available to us (no good Mexican food, can’t go see a movie, not really any museums, etc.). I go through periods when I’d rather not leave the DQ, so I end up feeling like a bit of a recluse. And J works a lot here, often with long hours, so he’s been in need of a break for a while. Plus, we’re surrounded by people who are constantly traveling so when we’re not we get a little FOMO. While we’re living here, we want to see as much of the region as we can. Bahrain is so nice and easy to travel to since it’s an only drive away, but it’s time to hop on a plan and see something new. Which brought us to Abu Dhabi.

You might be asking, why Abu Dhabi over Dubai? In US comparisons, it’s probably like going to West Palm Beach vs. South Beach. For us we just wanted something really chill. We definitely want to check out Dubai though so maybe we’ll go for a long weekend sometime soon.

When we travel we keep things pretty loose. We don’t plan out our days, but rather make a list of priorities when it comes to sightseeing and eating, then just tick things off as we go. Being flexible and agile, especially with kids, makes for much less stress. I’m so lucky to have married someone with the characteristics I love in a travel companion.

That being said, we wanted to see the Grand Mosque, go to the Louvre, check out Emirates Palace, spend a day at Saadiyat Island and take The Gents to Legoland. As for restaurants, there wasn’t anything we HAD to eat at. There are a lot of nice places, especially around our hotel, so we knew we’d eat really well. J has some colleagues who are posted at the Embassy there so we wanted to see them as well. One of them was so kind to let us borrow her nanny for a couple evenings so we could get out on our own. A Godsend! Unfortunately The Gents both had tummy issues ALL week and there were sand storms/high winds 2 of the 5 days we were there. The only thing we didn’t do was go to Saadiyat Island. All in all, it was a really successful trip. These kids are troopers and they never cease to amaze me.

There is definitely more in Abu Dhabi than we took advantage of. We would love to have gone to Ferrari World but C&R couldn’t have gone on any of the rides, which would have meant that J and I would be taking turns. It was even tough for them to get the full Legoland experience, but we did all that was allowed. There are also sailing trips and more Middle Eastern culture to take in. Having toddlers limits some activities anywhere you go though. When they’re a little older it will be easier, so for now we make the most of all we can.

One additional note, I was really impressed with the level of service and catering to children everywhere we went. Abu Dhabi seems very family-oriented, which makes sense with the number of expats livings there. Everywhere we went there were small children and restaurants always had enough highchairs and crayons. Staff in shops and restaurants always stopped to interact with The Gents. It was really sweet.

If you're thinking of visiting, don't hesitate to reach out with questions. Here’s a quick rundown of our week…

STAY

Rosewood Abu Dhabi – we’re big fans of the Rosewwood since we stayed there for an extended period before we left DC. The hotel and rooms are gorgeous, the amenities are great and service is impeccable. They have kids services as well, including a kid’s club and nannies for hire. When we arrived cribs were already set-up. There was a mini pop-up castle in our room, with gift bags for The Gents, as well as children’s toiletries. Cookies, other sweet treats and milk were waiting for us when we arrived.

SEE

Grand Mosque – come completely covered (hair, shirt to wrists and pants to ankles) in regular clothing or an abaya, unless you want to wear a loaner abaya. Also be prepared that you will be walking barefoot as soon as you enter the mosque. I had never been in a mosque before so I had no clue.

Legoland Dubai – we had a lot of fun and we were surprised with Dubai Parks, which also included Motiongate, Bollywood and Riverland. The surrounding area of theme parks was also a pleasant surprise with all sorts of Western chain restaurants to make you feel back at home.

Emirates Palace – this used to be an actual palace so you can imagine how grand it is. We didn’t spend a lot of time here and it was in the evening so we could see much. The grounds were rolling and immaculate. A friend later showed us pics of a hotel room she had been in and it was jaw dropping. We walked around a bit after our Haakasan dinner. The shops are luxe and geared towards Emiraties. I had fun just looking at the Rolex watches that you’d never see anywhere else with leopard print brands, swirling diamond designs in the bracelet and ombre gemstone bezels.

Louvre Abu Dhabi – I’m so impressed with this place. Not only are the grounds and building an architectural delight, the pieces on rotation are incredibly special. You don’t get to see these types of works often. The art history lover in me was swooning.

EAT

Leopold’s of London – an easy breakfast spot for good coffee and tasty simple breakfast. We usually had croissant, muffins and yoghurt, but they have some nice plated breakfasts and salads. Also got chicken nuggets and pasta for the gents in evening.

Rosewood Aqua (breakfast buffet) – pricey, but has everything you could need.

Loco – what a treat to have Mexican food! We both got chicken enchiladas, something we haven’t eaten in a very long time. The boys had grilled shrimp and nachos.

Prego’s – an Italian spot, known for their pizzas. You can also get some really nice cheeses and PORK charcuterie!

Bentley’s Kitchen – I felt like I was in a London gastro pub. Good comfort food. We both got burgers and shared with C&R.

Haakasan – when I found out there was one here I was really excited because this is a favorite place of mine in London. Even though the original chef has sold of the global chain, the food is still great and did not disappoint.

Dai Pai Dong – they serve all you can eat dim sum during lunch hours!

Butcher & Still – intended to be a traditional Chicago style steakhouse, we were in awe of the aesthetics of the restaurant (think of every art deco leather Restoration Hardware piece you can imagine) and authentic quality of food. This place made me homesick for Chicago, but filled my craving for a bone-in filet, and wedge salad.

Roberto’s – we celebrated Valentine’s here with The Gents. For being a white tablecloth restaurant I was impressed that there was a kids menu. They noshed on calamari fritti and pizza margherita, while J enjoyed black truffle risotto and I had the fusilli cacio e pepe con ragu, which I want to replicate.

SHOP

The Galleria – we spent a lot of time in this ultra high-end mall. The only designer missing was Chanel. No, I didn’t buy anything (other than restocking on French skincare products) but it was nice to look and get some ideas. The mall is situated between the Rosewood and Four Seasons, on the waterfront, with restaurants dotting  the waterfront path.

Yas Mall – before our return flight we had a little time to kill so we stopped at Yas Mall since so many people have told us about it. It’s on Yas Island, a new development. Wasn’t really in the mood to buy anything, but gathered more ideas for upcoming purchases.

Note: Prices are a little more than you’d expect for certain brands. For instance, we can’t get Kiehl’s in Riyadh so it’s has to be ordered online. They had it at a Yas but it was ridiculously expensive. The French skincare products I purchased were also more expensive, but those are much tougher to find online and take forever to ship (from France, to US, to Riyadh) so I paid the premium for convenience. With any place we go we do our research on product prices, exchange rates and VAT to make sure we’re not getting gouged.

TRANSPORTATION

Taxis are very reasonably priced and Careem (Uber of the region) is easily available. If you’ve got kids it’s a good idea just to rent a car. They’re affordable and make getting around so much easier.

Tags Abu Dhabi, Abu Dhabi Tourism, Traveling with kids, Legoland, Abu Dhabi Louvre, Rosewood Abu Dhabi, The Galleria, Dining Out Abu Dhabi, Family Travel, Travel With Kids, Traveling with twins
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Lyon

October 25, 2017 Adrienne Bitter
This one shot over the Saone looking at Old Lyon just doesn't do this city justice.

This one shot over the Saone looking at Old Lyon just doesn't do this city justice.

When J and I were thinking about where we wanted to visit on our first big trip out of Riyadh easily agreed that we wanted eat at Michelin starred restaurants and drink great wine. We had a few cities short listed that we thought could deliver both and Lyon quickly rose to the top.

Lyon is the second largest city in France. It’s not as cosmopolitan as Paris in that it doesn’t have the glamorous nightlife, number of museums or amount of luxury shopping, BUT it is known for its’ food and wine scene. There are 117 Michelin starred restaurants in Lyon. It sits on two rivers, the Saône and Rhône. You may have heard of a little area called the Rhône River Valley, which produces some of my personal faves – Cote-du-Rhone, Gigondas, and Chateauneuf-du-Pape.

We stayed in a lovely and artfully styled Airbnb in the 2nd. It’s central and a quick walk across the river to old Lyon. We’re finding that Airbnb is more cost effective and super easy with the Gents. Baby proofing is a bit of a challenge, but having the room for them to spread out and a proper place for us to prepare meals for them is great. And being able to wash and dry clothing is key! The downside was that it was a walk-up building and we were on the third floor, but it made for good exercise. The big bonus was that we were situated a block away from a really nice park so that C&R we able to get outside and play, which has been a rarity for them. We also rented a car for the week, knowing we’d want to explore wine country. Lyon is very reasonably priced so a week is easily doable.

We arrived in the city at around 10a Sunday morning. Unfortunately we couldn’t get into our Airbnb until 4p that afternoon. The farmers market, along the Saône, was a block away from the flat. I had read about this before arriving and had high expectations. It did not disappoint. In-season fruit and veg, locally produced saucisson, any French cheese you can imagine, poulet roti, bread, pastries, wine and flowers. This farmers market is open every day, except Mondays, and was a frequented spot during our stay.

We killed time that day by roaming the streets, sitting at outdoor cafes, and discovering a great coffee shop called Slake. Boutique coffee shops are not common in France, like the US, as the café is the usual spot to grab your pick-me-up. We drank quite a few coffees here during the week.

We’ve gotten in a routine in France, which started during our Paris trip. Jeff runs out to Eric Kayser (it’s chain) is the mornings to get the obligatory petit dejuner items – coffee, pastries and quiche lorraine. It makes mornings a bit more leisurely so we don’t have to rush to get us all ready, out the door, and sit in a café that might be crowded. Also our fruit finds from the market were a precursor for the Gents that held them over until their quiche arrived. Then it was time get out!

It’s said that Old (Vieux) Lyon is one of the more extensive Renaissance neighborhoods in Europe. It really is unlike any area I’ve visited in Europe, making me feel like I’d been transported to the middle ages…and not in a gimmicky way. It’s been preserved so well - the gothic cathedrals, buchons, shops, the nooks and crannies of the meandering cobble stone streets. In the evening it’s juxtaposed with college students, spilling out bars and wine caves. It sits at the bottom of a very steep hill that we really wanted to explore, but there was no way were making that hike with the stroller. We figured we’d wait on that. In the meantime, we scoped out wine caves and picked up lunch for C&R at a boulongerie.

That afternoon, we picked up the Gent’s godmother from the train station. We call her Tia. She happened to be heading to London for work so she carved out some time to spend with us. Note – driving in Lyon is a bit nerve wracking because you have to circumnavigate the streets that only allow buses, trams, bikers, and pedestrians. It was a little stressful so by the time we picked up Tia we were ready for lunch and glass of wine. We weren’t too far from a bouchon that I wanted to checkout so we made our way over towards the Opera House and Hôtel de Ville. Of course by the time we got there they were no longer seating anyone. Also something good to note is that most of the smaller restaurants only have about an 2-hour window for lunch (noon-2p), but you need to get there no later than 1p to get seated and ensure there is food as many items are made to order. We opted to eat a café outside Hôtel de Ville.

Before going home we made one last trip to pick up a few bottles in wine at Guyot, a sizeable wine shop a few blocks from the flat. We were feeling rosé (shocking) and the person manning the shop was helpful in making our final decisions. When he asked where we were from Tia said, “Chicago”. To which he replied, “In Michigan?” You can imagine a French person knowing of the state of Michigan put an immediate smile on my face. By time we got back to the flat that babes had woken up from their nap and already had some time in the park.

We sat with the Gents while the had their dinner, played before their evening bath, and kissed their golden locks goodnight before we left for our first Michelin starred dinner of the week at La Mere Brazier. (le sigh) This really was a lovely kick-off to our dining experiences of the week. I didn’t take any pics of the dinner and I wish I had because it was really special. The restaurant was started in 1921 by Eugénie Brazier…a woman! And under her reign she was awarded 3 Michelin stars, twice. The restaurant now has 2 under Mathieu Viannay and he’s even kept some Madame’s signature dishes on the menu. The food, wine, the ambiance, the staff…everything was impeccable and the restaurant deserves its notoriety. We particularly enjoyed the sommelier, Jeremy. Not only did he hand write a list of ALL of the wines we had (each of us had different pairings for each course), but we mentioned that we were driving to Chateauneuf-du-Pape the following morning and he suggested a couple places wineries to visit. To cap off the evening, after closing down the kitchen, Mathieu Viannay come to each table in the dining room to say hello. It was a nearly 4 hour dinner and we were beyond ready to get some rest before our morning road trip.

After that decadent meal we we’re all a bit slow moving the next morning. We got on the road as quickly as we could though to get to C-d-P. It was a picturesque drive, nestled in a valley with the Alps to the east in the far distance. We made it to the village just in time to be seated for lunch La Mere Germaine. The dining room is really pretty, but it was a perfect day and we took advantage of sitting outside. It felt like we were in Italy, and when we realized how far south and which Italian cities we were longitudinally aligned with, it made sense! We didn’t have much time, so we had to make the most of this vsit. After an elegant three-course lunch, it was time to start tasting more of the local product. There are a lot of tasting rooms in the village, but there was one nearby on my list that I wanted to check out, Boutique Santa Duc. Tia had mentioned to the person working the wine room that she wanted to learn more about the various blends and make-up of the different wines. He ended up giving us a nice little overview, education and tasting. And for that we walked out with two great bottles. We popped into a couple more shops, J bought another bottle while the Gents stretched their legs running about the sidewalk. We were running out of daylight so we decided we better drive out to one of the reco’d wineries before the tasting rooms closed. We made it to Chateau La Nerthe with an hour left to spare. We had already had La Nerthe the night before and we ordered a bottle a lunch, so we knew this was going to be good. Again we bought another bottle, took advantage of the photo opp in the country, let C&R stretch their legs a bit more, and it was time to make the two-hour trek back. If I had to do it over I would have stayed overnight so we could have experience more, but I’m glad we were there if even for a short time.

Since we sat in the car most of the previous day is was time to get out an walk a bit on Wednesday. We ended up at the farmer’s market to grab items for the day. And knowing we’d have a rich dinner that evening we wanted to keep it light and simple for lunch. Tia took charge with getting a poulet roti, hericot vert, and a head if greens. We also needed more cheese, so we stopped at the fromagerie in the market to get our favorite truffled brie and comte for the boys. One last stop for a baguette and we were set for our lunch at home. With one of the bottles of rose we had purchased and the French window doors open, it made for a ‘grama-able setting!

That evening we had a reservation at Paul Bocuse. We continued our nightly routine with the C&R before leaving, and sipped a little bubbly before heading out. Paul Bocuse is an institution in Lyon, as he should be with 50 years-worth of Michelin stars. The entrées and plats were quintessentially French, and so meticulously plated that they were almost too pretty to eat. That didn’t stop us though. And we pushed through to the cheese course/buffet. Our waiter was disappointed when we didn’t ask for more as we were saving ourselves for dessert. The funniest and fortuitous moment of the night when J said, “This may sound really cheesy, but I love a good dessert tray. You know, when they bring it to the table?” Then low and behold not one, not two, but three carts are pulled up to our table! One by one trays of the prettiest confections you’ve seen were placed on each. We all choose our own dessert. Yet, again our waiter is disappointed that we didn’t select more. Little did we know it really was a dessert buffet and we could have loaded our table with anything we wanted. Am so glad we didn’t know better. Mind you I still ate every bite of my beautiful floating island. (le sigh) Another 4-hour dinner in the books.

More walking was in order on Thursday so we thought it would be good to cross the Rhône over to Les Halles (Paul Bocuse’s indoor market). It’s kind of like Eataly meets Union Market, except it’s all French. There are a few restaurants there as well. We have family friends, a couple and their son, who recently moved to Lyon. The father was working and the son was in school, so the mother, D, met up with us for lunch. To be honest, I think she really wanted to see C&R more than anything! I don’t blame her. It was great to see another familiar face. After more rosé, salads, and escargot we ventured back over the river to their new flat. En route D picked up some champagne and patisseries. We settled in to their home, relaxing, enjoying the view, and letting the boys scamper about. It’s so nice when you can go to a foreign country and be in a friend’s or family’s home. After this respite it was time to venture back to our flat.

This was our second to last night in Lyon and we had to make it count as we already had plans for our last evening. When doing some research before arriving I came across a little wine cave in Old Lyon, Le Cave du Voyageurs. A handful of tables are lined on the sidewalk, but inside only has two tables and five bar stools, in which we were fortunate to get three. They have an extensive cellar, with a glass trap door as soon as you enter (I don’t know why I didn’t take a picture of that!). We maybe sat there for 20 minutes before we piped up that we wanted to order. It didn’t really bother us though because the scene was entertaining. I theorized that it was a brother owned operation, one managed the bar and the other the kitchen. One was short haired and clean shaven, the other a bit of a disheveled mess. The guy in the kitchen, with a long French nose and thick bushy beard, walked out shaking a baguette and speaking loudly in French to an overdressed patron in a suit and tie. He and his two friends were buying bottles at the corner table. The patron smirked and didn’t say anything back. In this place, the maison is right and you better put up with it, smug guy in suit! I knew this was place was awesome and I wish I could be a regular. On the bar, lined up in front of us were bottles, to be ordered by the glass. When looking at these bottles of wineries and varietals that we didn’t recognize, admittedly, we were a little intimidated…or as Tia aptly put, “I feel like a dummy.” The one additional guy working the bar was great though. We each had something in mind that we wanted and that helped guide him to a recommendation for us. Two glasses in, it was time to find a quick bite somewhere before closing time. Again, we were too late for most places. But not too late for the kabob place, where J and I practiced Arabic and Tia got the BEST falafel we’ve ever eaten. But we didn’t go home just yet. We had a recommendation from an Embassy friend to have a beer at Les Fleurs du Malt. It may not have had a ton of character compared to other bars in the neighborhood, but it had an extensive selection of beers. I founds the lightest blonde on the menu at 5.5% for my nightcap and drank it out of plastic cup with the college kids standing on the sidewalk outside of the bar.

Every evening ran late on this vacation and every morning started early with toddlers being mere feet away from us. By Friday morning we started really late. We had the grand idea to trek up the Old Lyon hill to the Basilica. It was one thing I really wanted to do, but I knew wasn’t going to happen. Maybe next time. At that point coffee became a necessity and Tia got a good reco from a friend, called Puzzle. I was just what we all needed After coffee we shopped a bit. It was now the perfect time to hit the bouchon that we couldn’t get into earlier in the week, Bouchon Lyonnais Chez Hugon. We walked in just after noon. It seats 20 people and was already half-full. We were asked if we had a reservation, of course we didn’t. We were almost turned away again when the owner, Arlette Hugon, held up her hand and pointed to the end of one open table and started moving place settings around to squeeze us in. The waitress asked if the table arrangement was OK with us. I was thrilled they were nice enough to make room for us (this would never happen in Paris). A traditional Lyonnais bouchon menu is VERY country – tripe, brains, blood sausage, pigs feet, coarse pate – essentially, all of the parts on an animal that might go to waste. We started with the pate and some lentils with a vinegar dressing. It was a nice balance to cut the richness of the pate, which was so good! J and Tia went with the house traditional plate of blood sausage. My first choice wasn’t available, so the runner-up was chicken in a vinegar sauce. The creamy tomato based sauce was reminiscent of Thanksgiving, full of rosemary and thyme. With the dark meat quarter chicken and pasta it was served with, it was pure comfort food. The blood sausage was served with baked apples. The flavors were great, but the texture was mushy and not what we expected. The food is unique and we definitely appreciated the style of cooking. It may not have been our favorite meal of the trip, but we all agreed that we’re glad we tried it!

As this point we were full of wine and food and I was ready to see the boys since we left them at home for the morning with Joy. She needed a break too, so we took them out for the afternoon. The day before Tia had done some pharmacy shopping. French pharmacies really are like candy stores for adults who love beauty products. I’ve never really delved into them, but now that I’m 40 and dealing with a desert climate it’s time to take a cue from the French. I’ll write another post in a few weeks about my new skincare regimen. For now, I will say I noticed an immediate difference overnight. With our new beauty finds we walked through the park and let the boys run free. It was so fun to watch them in this environment since we don’t have anything similar in Riyadh. Carter ran up to a group of people kicking a soccer ball, then tried to steal it. Royce just ran in the wide open, giggling while being chased. I marvel and how quickly they can develop their social and motor skills when given the chance. Their vocabulary has expanded. This week they didn’t have high chairs but still sat up like big kids in regular chairs at a normal table to eat their meals. They used adult utensils and fed themselves. Carter even proved he can hold a champagne glass without breaking it! These are testaments to allowing them the space to grow and them proving the can meet the challenge.

It was time to get them home for dinner though. Tia decided to take a break from 4-hour dinners to stay back that evening and cook her Godsons dinner…spaghetti with red sauce no less. They were a mess and enjoyed every bite of it! At this point we had one last bottle to drink before the end of the trip, so we toasted our last evening together in Lyon before J and I left for our last dinner. I specifically made the restaurant reservations in the order I did so we could get a culinary history of Lyon. Ending the week with La Neuvieme Art made for such a vastly different experience compared to its’ predecessors since it’s rooted in molecular gastronomy, but you can feel and taste the influence of the chefs that made Lyon what it is today. In total we had 9 different courses (pics are in Instagram). It was spectacular and surprising well priced! It reminded me of being at Alinea or Next, but at a fraction of the price.

When I think about this we just scratched the surface on all that is available in this area of France. I’d love to go back and check out more restaurants and other wineries. Maybe in a few years when the C&R are a little older and can actually remember the trip. I’m glad we were able to explore a different corner of the world and make some wonderful memories doing it. These trips are also even more special when we can share them with family and friends. So when you start thinking about your travels, let me know. Who knows? We may be able to link up with you!

Tags Family Travel, Traveling with kids, Traveling with twins, Michelin Resturants, Chateauneuf du Pape, Travel Eats, Airbnb Lyon, Lyon Travel
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Bahrain Reflections

September 12, 2017 Adrienne Bitter
The Arabian sunset on the drive back to Riyadh.

The Arabian sunset on the drive back to Riyadh.

Now that we have the Gents, vacations and holidays are a bit different for us. Before kids, trips were much more carefree. We're not going to stop travelling and we'd much rather them be with us, but it definitely makes for some adjustments and more planning. Travelling can be costly and it's regrettable if we're not all enjoying ourselves. With that in mind, I definitely feel more aware of the journey during it - how we’re experiencing it, consciously living in the moments, tag teaming C&R so that J and I are maximizing time with them while we're all having fun...awareness is a lot of work. And now more than ever, I’m trying to be aware of as much as possible so I can share our experiences with you all. This first trip to another GCC country was enlightening from a Muslim and Middle East perspective, plus we're always learning a little more about ourselves, too...

People still live in tents in the desert. It’s 2017 and, I repeat, people still live in tents…IN THE DESERT. I suppose it’s kind of fantastic and romantic, right? This really intrigues me and I want to know more about these Bedouins. There may be some desert glamping in our future.

Do you know there are tan, white AND black camels? I'm pretty sure we saw a few camel farms, which may explain the tents as I now understand that some Bedouins raise camels. There also appeared to be much smaller packs of camels roaming free. I’m sure the novelty of these animals will wear off, I know they're dirty and they spit, but for now I still want to ride a camel.

Saudi drivers are maniacs. I thought it was bad in Riyadh but it seems that driving is even more aggressive in the dessert. Lanes are mere suggestions, passing on the shoulder is completely normal, and people make the quickest lane changes into a car length's space. I kept having flashes of Robert Duvall in Days of Thunder saying, "Rubbing's racing." Needless to say, being in a car in KSA, with the Gents, makes me a little uneasy. Driving in off peak hours is much better. It’s experiences like those that make me feel good about the driving skills J picked up in the Army and that I’m not allowed to drive here.

Bahrain is lovely but it's humid AF. I knew it would be steamy, but I’ve never experienced every pore on my body opening up at the same time and sweat immediately pushing out. Understandably the resort was not very busy, which was nice, but I think we’ll return in the late Fall and Winter months when the temp and humidity will be more manageable.

Modesty is more prevalent in Bahrain than I imagined. As much as I like to envision the empowering image of women tossing their abaya, hijab and niqab out the window of their vehicles as soon as they cross the border, the truth is many Muslim women are still completely covered in Bahrain. And these women were sitting outside! I supposed much like how I’ve become acclimated to Riyadh dry heat, these women have acclimated to the humidity? I even saw a few burkinis for those modest women that got into the water. Juxtaposed there were a few Middle Eastern women in bikinis. I didn’t feel so haram in my two-piece after seeing them.

I expected a bit of excess from the locals when it came to alcohol, given that it is available, but there weren’t many Muslims drinking alcohol. In fact, I actually heard some specifically order mocktails. I think the only people that we drinking were the expats, me included. It was really nice to have a Negroni at lunch and wine pairings with dinner though!

Keeping with religious practices, I was impressed with the number of people praying on the side of road during sundown prayer on the drive back to Riyadh. I’m talking vehicle parked, prayer rug laid out and kneeling to Mecca prayer. Legit. Mind you, there were still a lot of cars driving, but the devotion by some definitely made me feel some Catholic guilt. Prayer time is a great reminder for me to pray.

Travelling with friends and their kids you all REALLY like is wonderful. T works with J, and I quickly hit it off with T's wife H when she and their almost 4 year-old boy-girl twins(!) arrived. We've spent a lot time with this family already so it was a no-brainer when T asked if we wanted to go to Bahrain with them. J & T often play golf together, which means us ladies have solo duty with the kids. We took advantage of some spa time and had a one-cocktail, girls night out after the kids went down. I know not very crazy, but these are big deals after kids! I think we going to have to travel with them more. 

We learned that 19 month-olds can only sit still for so long without entertainment. I knew the Gents would eventually get bored during the drive. This boredom resulted in C's shrill screaming that pained my heart, and ears. In an out of character move, while I was sitting in the back trying to calm C, J abruptly passes my phone back to me. He’s not keen on using the screen to entertain them and I don’t want to be reliant on it either. We'd been delaying the inevitable. This is an instance when you switch to survival mode and do whatever needs to be done to get through the moment. I quickly went to YouTube and found a 74 minute video of nursery rhymes. STC reception is spotty in the middle of the desert so C was getting frustrated when the video kept freezing. At that moment H rang me, heard C crying in the background and immediately empathized. H usually has an iPad and extra phone with her for their twins. We made a quick pit stop and she loaned us their iPad, loaded with all sorts of videos. I don’t know how people survived without these things. They must have just let their kids scream. C was soon content and R was happy to wake up to see the Curious George movie playing. And yes, this exact story replayed itself on the ride back to Riyadh. Honestly, I don't feel that guilty about giving into the almighty screen. These guys don’t really watch TV anyway so if a little screen time on a road trip makes them happy and quiet, that’s fine by me. Seeing their faces light up watching something they enjoy is reward. I guess it’s time to finally get an iPad though.

The Gents are becoming swimmers! Although they’re both wearing a “Puddle Jumper” they are surprisingly comfortable in the water already. When they see their swim gear now they actually get excited. The older twins, E&E, are really good swimmers, which has already been a positive influence on C&R. The Gents are learning quite a bit from them already – kicking their legs and moving their bodies in the direction they want to go. We barely need to hold them in the water since they can now control their bodies pretty well, rolling to their backs so they can float. They see E&E jump into the water so now C&R are getting brave enough to walk off a ledge to “jump” in, too. It's fun to see what they're picking up from older kids. Now E&E just need to teach C&R to talk or at least interpret the twin speak for us!

On a final note, and funny story, we learned that J is an excellent paddle boarder. He and T went on a minor rescue mission in Bahrain Bay for a pair of sunglasses that fell off H while she was in the pool. J took a paddle board (first time ever) and T was in a kayak to go fish the sunglasses out of the bay. J started paddling, FAST. I’ve never seen anyone move that quickly on a board. Racing T to the sunglasses, J gets there first, jumps into the water and comes up with the sunglasses. I cheer, “Yay Dad!” as the Gents watch. Gallantly, he places them on his face and proceeds to get back on his board. And he falls off. The sunglasses are lost, again! T then swoops in on his kayak, jumps into the water to soon come up with the prized sunglasses. It was much more fitting that T save the day and retrieve his love’s sunglasses though. The friendly competition in chivalry was sweet and such a perfect comedic J moment! 

Sadly it was a quick trip, but a good one for us to get familiar with the drive. Knowing how easy it is to get there, I know we’ll be back soon. I’m thrilled to still be learning so much about the culture and people here, to see our little gentlemen develop and grow stronger, spend QT as a family and have good friends to travel with. 

Tags Bahrain Travel, Family Travel, Traveling with twins, Traveling with kids, Driving from Riyadh to Bahrain
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And So Our Middle East Travels Begin

September 12, 2017 Adrienne Bitter
One of the many camel sightings on the the way to Bahrain.

One of the many camel sightings on the the way to Bahrain.

As you can tell from the blog and my Instagram feed, we're settling into life pretty well here.  Riyadh is growing on me. Yes it has its’ quirks, but there are so many worse places in the world we could be! On the plus side, there are two, week-long holidays. Eid Al Fitr marking the end of Ramadan and Eid Al Adha commemorating the willingness of Abraham to follow God's command to sacrifice his son. Things get pretty quiet around here for both as locals and expats take advantage of the holiday break to travel.

Since we just arrived right before Eid al Fitr J got stuck with work duties and we weren’t able to get away. I was really excited for Eid al Adha because I would be off work and hopeful J would get some time as well. One of our friends, T, brought up taking a trip with the kids to Bahrain. (Have I mentioned he and his wife have almost 4 year old boy-girl twins? We’ve been having a lot of fun with them and all the kids!) We talked about Bahrain long before we arrived. As soon as our car was delivered I started bugging J, "When are we driving to Bahrain?!" 

In my mind this would be similar to a Chicago-Ann Arbor road trip. Easy. The drive from Riyadh to Bahrain is about four-and-a-half hours, including the time to get through the five different customs checkpoints at the border. Not a bad drive at all to get to a much more liberal Muslim country. And gas barely costs anything in KSA so it’s really ideal to drive. We stayed at the Four Seasons, which is pretty much is its own island. We didn’t need to leave the resort for anything the 48 hours we were there. We swam, ate great food, had some cocktails, went to the spa, got to hang out with new friends and make some family memories. It was a perfect little getaway. I can't wait to go again. 

I realize I’m now getting into a routine in Riyadh. Occurrences that once seemed foreign and strange are now starting to become commonplace. On the drive to Bahrain, while driving through what felt like an endless desert, it hit me all over again - "Holy crap, we live in Saudi Arabia! And we're driving to another country!" It's wild and special. These are things most people will never get to experience. The Gents' Midwest road trips seem a world away. Instead of pointing out cows, I’m pointing at camels. I hope they know how special and unique this life is. We’ll have to reinforce it so they don’t take it for granted.

Before arriving in Riyadh I'd never been to the Middle East. Most Americans haven't and have no desire to visit. I will admit KSA had me scared. If it wasn't for J visiting a couple times before, and assuring me we’d be safe, I never would have agreed to move. I can definitely understand how most people think it's scary and are constantly praying for our safety, but when I hear Americans and Europeans say they feel safer being here than other countries, that's really telling.

I'm not saying that we shouldn't continue to be vigilant. I'm just saying we should continue to make smart choices, not be afraid to live our lives and experience what this world has to offer. I do not want to live the next 21 months solely on the DQ. I certainly want to see as much of the region as possible while we're here, and have my Indiana Jones moment in Petra! Can't wait to share these adventures in the region with you all. More to come…

Tags Bahrain Travel, Family Travel, Traveling with twins, Traveling with kids, Driving from Riyadh to Bahrain, Four Seasons Bahrain, Diplomatic Life, Diplomat Wife
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