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Starting My Medevac

August 2, 2018 Adrienne Bitter
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Medical evacuation. It sounds serious doesn’t it? It’s pretty standard for pregnancy deliveries though. One of the perks of being in Riyadh, and many posts around the world, is that families have the option of coming back to the States to deliver. I know of one American diplomat who delivered in Riyadh and her experience was fine. But I would feel terrible about our family not being able to see baby girl soon after she’s born. Riyadh isn’t the easiest place to travel to so it would be difficult for people to visit.

And just in case this little lady ends up running for President one day, I don’t want her place of birth being an issue. ;) JK! She’d be a US citizen no matter where we’re living or where she’s born because we’re US citizens. I clarify this because we’ve actually had a number of people ask us about this.

The one thing I was worried most about the medevac process was finding a doctor Stateside and building a relationship 34 weeks into my pregnancy. I heard from other women who opted to medevac to the US that a lot of doctors don’t like taking on new patients so far into a pregnancy. Surprisingly, or maybe by luck, I was able to secure a doctor at The University of Michigan with one phone call.

The staff at the women’s practice was completely understanding of my situation and even said that they’ve dealt with similar situations previously. I suppose that makes sense being a university hospital with many traveling professors and being in a town that’s pretty transient. Fortunately there were still two doctors available to deliver, given my due date. I started feeling more at ease, securing a doctor and speaking with the staff that was really helpful and communicative.

When we arrived in Chicago I had an initial intake interview with the practice. I thought ahead and emailed a digital copy of my medical file to the office for reference. The nurse asked a series typical history questions. Since we’d be in Chicago for a couple weeks still she gave me her direct line, as well as an emergency number, case I needed it for anything.

Once I arrived in Michigan I had my week-34 appointment in Ann Arbor, where I met my doctor for the first time. She’s great. She not only asked me a lot of questions, but gave me the opportunity as well. She listened to my concerns, the biggest one being that J is here for the delivery. We discussed options, VBAC vs. c-section, and concluded that scheduling a c-section was best, which is scheduled for August 23.

Of course baby girl may decide to come early, but at least we have a little insurance to get J here in time. And the Embassy is closed the week prior for Eid, which means J comes back even earlier! So as long as I can keep baking this girl until he arrives, we should be good to go!

And speaking of 'good to go', I had my last ultrasound on this past Monday. When my doctor measured my belly at week-34 she measured the baby closer to 32 weeks. Measuring with a tape measure isn’t very precise, I know. Since Royce lost weight that last week of the pregnancy she wanted to get precise measurements to make sure baby girl is healthy. And she is, measuring on schedule. She’s also moved head-down. She was quite the performer - smiling, opening her mouth, and sucking her thumb. Was really nice to get a 3-D scan of her as well. She definitely resembles her brothers.

Tomorrow we move into our Ann Arbor apartment and I’ll go in for my week-36 appointment to begin the weekly non-stress tests. I’m definitely beginning to feel like we’re nearing the end. I had a lot of Braxton Hicks contractions the last few weeks and now I’m feeling so much pressure on my pelvis. The pain in my hip flexors is increasing each day, even with yoga and stretching, to the point that I’m now waddling from time to time! So say a little prayer for us, that we make it until J arrives! xo

Tags Pregnancy, Pregnancy Medevac, Pregnant Over 40, Pregnant Overseas, Pregnancy After Twins, C-Section, DiplomatWife, DipLife
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Taking A Little Break

July 26, 2018 Adrienne Bitter
Trying to take a nice family photo after my nephew's/godson's baptism. This was the BEST that The Gents could do, at nap time and sitting so well during mass!

Trying to take a nice family photo after my nephew's/godson's baptism. This was the BEST that The Gents could do, at nap time and sitting so well during mass!

I can’t believe it’s been 4 weeks since I last wrote a post! I knew I’d be busy with family and friends, enjoying everything I’d missed this last year about life back home, but it’s been eye opening to realize that I’ve hardly had a free moment for myself now that I’m pretty much on my own with The Gents. And when I do have a moment, I do yoga...and I may have gotten my nails done a couple times! As I have said before, everyone’s definition of self-care changes with life events. :) Next up is finding more time for writing, and then drawing. I really hope it will come, but I’m not putting too much pressure on myself. I’m just enjoying our time here, appreciating each day, and reflecting.

During this time a number of my beliefs have been reinforced:

–      America, even with its current short-comings, is still the greatest country in the world

–      Adjustments are hard, but life changes are ever harder – exponentially so for toddlers

–      Stay at home Mamas, with NO help, have such a tough job

I’ve mentioned this before in reference to my time living in London and since we’ve been in Riyadh, but the United States really IS awesome. Anyone who lives here and doesn’t recognize how precious our freedoms are, despite the many frustrations of our government, needs to spend an extended period of time outside of this country.

This may sound overly simplified and superficial, but – with its fresh air, parks, grocery stores, farmers markets, malls, ease of driving, restaurants, being able to go to church, not having to worry about being confronted by religious police for not being “properly” covered, etc. – living in the U.S. is SO much easier! I hope you all appreciate what you have and are thankful everyday being here.

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I didn’t really think about how each of these four phases of this trip – Chicago, Michigan (at my brother’s), Ann Arbor pre-delivery, and Ann Arbor post-delivery – might affect The Gents. Each of these phases is like a short-term move, and moves take time to time to settle-in and adjust to. It’s been tough on C&R.

As I’ve written before, they sense change is coming, but the last few weeks has been a lot to deal with. They’ve been in so many different environments, they’re constantly over-stimulated, their day-to-day routine is so different and now J is back in Riyadh. It’s been idyllic though, constantly around family and playing outside whenever they want. In these few weeks they’ve grown so much, especially in their communication, and I’m really proud of them.

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That being said, they’re pushing their boundaries since we’ve arrived Stateside. This is the most challenging time I’ve ever experienced with them, especially now that J is back in Riyadh. I truly feel like a stay at home mother now that we’re completely on our own during the day. I appreciate help so much more now! My patience is being tested constantly though. I just hope I can be the best Mama for them…and that they don’t put me into an early labor! Stay tuned… xo

Tags Gratitude, Selfcare, Yoga, Toddlers, Pregnancy, Stay At Home Mama, Freedom, Adjustments
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